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This might be one of the top very special questions I have made in here in this forum, so bear with me.
As you know sometimes the communication between a guy and a lady is difficult because some ladies says something but means something else or tries to tell you something else.
So If a guy has as a common denominator all the ladies that have been with him in a relationship says you are so sweet:
what that means? 
thank you
now let me go back to study 
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| Jackofknives
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Gogeta, are you saying you are not a girl?
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Jackofknives wrote:
Gogeta, are you saying you are not a girl?
Wait let me check...... I do pipi standing up what ever that means
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| arlete
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It means that they think you are sweet and you are going to have a great relationship with a sweet-man-seeking kind of woman. Some like it rough, kind of bad boys, some don't. There's no universal rule. I, for example, never said one thing meaning another, never said "no" when I wanted to say "yes", and paid my price for it, that was a lot of misunderstanding. I never played games and I found a man who had no time and patiency for them, so, it worked for me!
Just keep being yourself, you're sweet.
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I m gonna get hell from what i m about to say but here it is.
When a girl says you are sweet well thats means 95% probably you are gonna get dumped pretty soon like in the next 10 sec.
Sweet is what they refer to their friends male friends who they know they can count on but want to keep it that way cos they have somehting to fall back on. So if she doesnt find something better than you then she is gonna keep you in the romanitc category otherwise friends it is.
So if you want to be all dreamy and starrry eyed thinking that maybe she will change her mind you are wasting your time. And if you really really want to this then buy the subs to Hustler
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new_n_lost wrote:
When a girl says you are sweet well thats means 95% probably you are gonna get dumped pretty soon like in the next 10 sec.
You have so nailed this one correctly!
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lol
i know been there and done that.
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new_n_lost wrote:
When a girl says you are sweet well thats means 95% probably you are gonna get dumped pretty soon like in the next 10 sec.
hands down!!! sooo true!
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My mom tells me Im cute all the time, does that mean she is gonig to dump me soon? Aw, thats sad, I dont want my mom to go away. 
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Jackofknives wrote:My mom tells me Im cute all the time, does that mean she is gonig to dump me soon? Aw, thats sad, I dont want my mom to go away.
Mom's and program coordinator's can call you cute and that doesn't count. I did call one of my former Chief Residents "Stud Muffin" and he didn't seem to mind.
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"Mom's and program coordinator's"
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| Feyza
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 nnl , thats sooooo very true man !!
but still I know girls calling their love of life SWEET so lets not generalize this to all ... there are alllways exceptions in life right?
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Feyza wrote: nnl , thats sooooo very true man !! but still I know girls calling their love of life SWEET so lets not generalize this to all ... there are alllways exceptions in life right?
Well i think you did better tell their hubbies to mix it a little cos it aint going that smoothly 
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| GOGETA
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nnl I have you like Housemd, not very PC but the intentions are the best. Thanks for the feedback.
Who else wants to cheap in their opinion?
Or solutions or preventive medicine to not get to hear that word from a date/girlfriend.
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I dont know wherther it is relvent...
but i need someone to understand this...
first things first..... i am a girl and i have had this GUY, (lets call him.... "A" ) as a friend for 10 to 11 years. that is since high school. We have bonded like ... i cant explain. he was my pillar of support, the best critic, always i mean always ready to help me out in ne bloody mess.....
he has had his share of girl firends n i have had mine... n we never liked each other choice he pestered me to get out of a painful relation n i did after a lot of effort n i helped him not fall for a Bi**h....
we have had this dream tht we come to the US(he is an engineer).... n pursue our respective careers. He came to the US 2 years ago n though i was so happy forhim..... i cudnt just bear the idea tht i wont be able to talk to him as often n.... stuff like that ... i cried my heart out when he was leaving . when i said.."i'll miss u" all he had to reply was"hmmmmm." n not once but over n over again.... i tht it was difficult for him to say tht... n dint mind
one day as i chatted with him... i just said.."i miss you. N I LOVE U"... and i WASNT in the ROMANTIC kind of love with"A".......
n said tht and i forgot all about it..... then "A' continued behaving wierd.... for 2 full years...
guys... i cant tell u how much i have racked my brain to know what went wrong between us..... i tht he was bugged tht i interfere in his life too much, so i apologized for it a million times...then i tht i was expecting too much.... so i stoped expecting replies n calls.... one fine day i tht tht may he he doesnt have a reason for his wierd behavior..... n just left him alone. i dint even speak to him when he called me to wish on my birthday. i dint even tell himtht i wud be comin to the US(i felt pathetic, since we had dreamt it together..)
its a month since i am here in the US n he came to know abt it n asked me abt it.... buti was staunch... ni dint reply to his mail... then 3 days ago i tht i had had enuf n called him.... n finally confronted him abt his behavior. So he siad "u said I LOVE U, n i dint want ne complication.... so tht was the way left out,... tht i avoid u....)
i was in a state of shock... coz i hadnt said it with the intention n wats worse i spent such a great deal of time thinking abt it. i just hung up afetr he said tht.
now i have these questions in mind.... can ne one answer them????
1. he has sent me cards signed".......love A" so do i misunderstand tht "love " word????
2. he once casually said "if ur best friend doesnt like ur new boy friend....u shd make ur best friend ur BOY FRIEND" (IT ACTUALLY IS THT U SHD SEARCH FOR A NEW BOY FRIEND)
3 once more he casually siad "y dnt we just get married....?"
4 what if i had taken all this seriously n misunderstood him????
5. was it right on his part tht even if he tht i was in love with him..... wud he just turn his back to me thte way he did..... dint he ever feel tht it cud be a misunderstanding... n want to confirm it?
6 now tht he is ready to talk to me after 2 yrs,wat has changed..... is he ready for a complication? ... has my love for him vanished?.... or did he clear the misunderstanding all by himself ????
come on friends.... help me out
Edited by drnaik on 06/18/08 - 01:39 PM. Reason: un necessary detail
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| arlete
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drnaik:
"A" is to complicated. Find a "B"!
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arlete....
ur so funny!
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but there cannot be a "B" as good as"A"
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Dr_Naik
Will try me best not to be teh love Guru.
But seems to me that you and A both have been such a good friends that you BOTH dont want to lose the friendship forever by walking down the aisle
He first was scared to lose the friend and honestly keeping things in perspective A is flirt and thought he being ur best friend could say anything and every thing.
But confuses me is that he avoiding you for that and making a Beeline for the door like a bat out of hell. Well if he needed time to think then thats a different story. But you know him better.
As for ur love being vanished for him is not likely at all. Your last post does say a lot. What you have to do is ask him while looking in the eye .>> what changed here mate.
That is what you have to ask him.
Ps a bit of warning here .... Relationships are very very different in US then back home. See if he recently got dumped by someone or had a very bad experience in such and is therefore seeking the safest person he knows in the world who he knows in mind that will take care of him. So dont fall for it or get trapped in a rebound cos seems to me this is what is happening or gonna happen.
Edited by new_n_lost on 06/18/08 - 06:17 PM
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the points no 1, 2 n 3 happenend long ago..... not now
i had called now.... for the 5 th time.... he was busy before...n dint return my calls
i was angry... n asked if this was an indication tht he dint want to talk to me?
oh my god.... what a conversation we had.... he blames me for all tht happened, says thr is no problem if i behave NORMAL.... he wud do the same...
n tht i have interfered in his life.....when i pestered abt his relations....
coz when he did the same.... i never tht he was interfering....
may be i really have a problem, coz everyone thinks so.....
i feel like crying out loud.... i am so hurt...
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Dump him. You are wasting your energy simply.
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yeah, i agree with arlete and nnl, the entire alphabet is waiting for you.
smile and move on
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Yeah Dr naik, its not like ur relationship with him can go back to the way it was...the buddies type now...some complications have happened...things have changed, u'll grew apart.plus the geographical distances..so if u cant have that close friendship with him y try harder...u will always think that its not as good as it was...its not at all ur fault but it cannot be changed now...u'll try harder and harder to make it the way it originally was and for that if you ask him or give an opinion about his life...he's again gonna think u r interfering...he'll only hurt u more...seriously chuck him...let go...and dive into the alphabet soup!
btw this is the first time i read through this thread and you guys r the besttttt...so supportive...and P4U is a family in itself...great work guys! as usual!
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