doc_superb
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i am an img from pakistan came here last year gave my step 1 in march 2007 and failed with a score of 65. after that i didnt give hope and planned to give again after 4 months but my luck was very bad. i planned to study from scratch again but i wasnt able to study at my apartment. that same place sucked me sitting all day long. i was so depressed that i was hardly able to study for 1 or two hours and sitting at home made me sick and depressed. my husband doesnt wants me to study , he just wants me to sit home all day long and not do anything. he doesnt teach me driving. it has benn almost two years i have been here in usa. i live in kansas city and we havent got any public transport even so i cant go even by myself to the library. i am just locked in the apt. no means to go out . i cant study . i want to match in 2009 and planning to conceive after step 1 but how can i give the exam by the end of this year i havent studied anything. what should i do ? i have 7 hours while my husband is in office but i cant study a word at home i have tried a lot. he doesnt support me or take me to the library or teach me driving what shold i do? anyone help me out? i am really depressed and sick coz of that
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| yunuz
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First of all you need to be in good state of mental health to study.
Try o talk gently to your husband and convince him of the good side of having you qualified and be able to work in the US.
Do you have any relatives or friends who can talk to your husband as well.You said you have 7 hours free time at home. You can just study at home.Buy books, make a schedule and start again.
Try to find a study partner online with whom you can study.
Dont give up.Even i you dont take the exam soon do not withdraw from studying a minimum of 2 hours a day.
Instead of getting depressed use your time to study and make plans.
Avoid conflicts with your husband and try to find a way to make him accept that you set for the test.
Use this forum as support.
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| youngone
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Hi! Look, you have to know you want this bad enough. By just posting here
on this site proves you more than want it. This is important to you. You have 7 free
hours a day. Let's say 6 hours because of housekeeping duties. 6 hours for 6 months
does not sound that bad. An extra month of intense review and you are set. You have
the means to work HARD at your disposal and you have TIME on your side. Do what
you have to do to get in a positive mind frame. DO NOT GIVE UP. Use what you have at
your disposal, time and desire. Now get out of that seat and stop being sad and DO
THIS! Please do not quit. With great sacrifice, comes great reward.
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