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Dear BBB,
i asked the PD directly when i met her as I am doing my observership at the same program that "what are my chances for match",she politely replied , i cant say that as it will be a violation of match "i immediately said sorry and came off.should i have to email her to apolazise me?
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| amirhossein
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No, don't make it bigger than it was.
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| bbb
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You asked "What are my chances?" - she can't tell you that. You should have asked "Will I be on the list?" - that's a yes/no answer.
Don't email her - just if you see her again - just say what you wanted to ask was if you were on the list, but don't wait for an answer. Move on.
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| baseball
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thank u bbb,amirhossein
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| baseball
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yes bbb, i thought it wasnt wrong asking ,what are my chances , i thought i shouldnt ask whats my rank in the list ,i felt bad that "y am i screwing my own chances " now i am scared to ask even whether i am on the list , should i have to ask that?
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| bbb
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Drop it for now - the program isn't going to take you off the list because you asked the question. Breathe in, breathe out. You'll be okay.
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| baseball
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thank u bbb,
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| baseball
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well , i remember the program director looking at my batch for my name immediately when i asked that question ,anyway , i do want to screw myself evenmore ,lost hopes of matching there ,anyway thanks bbb for ur support .
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| peace07
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u said it urself ur srewing urself
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| bbb
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Breathe in, breathe out. If he liked you enough that he was going to rank you, why would he throw you off a list because you asked a question? you are going to drive yourself nuts if you keep second guessing this. "Tranquilo" as my Peruvian buddy would tell me.
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| baseball
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thanks bbb,"tranquilo" whats that ??
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| bbb
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Relax!!!
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| dev
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hey baseball
Take it easy dont worry. just chill.....
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