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hi!
i graduated in 2003 , and have a 2 year old son.
i have done 1 reading of kaplan and now started 2 reading.but these days i am feeling so tired & nonmtivated. i don't know what to do.actually recently my motherinlaw moved with us and now i have to do cooking twice everyday, laundry every day alongwith taking care of my child. i feel so tired and sleepy i cannot concentrate on my studies whenever i get time.i dont know what to do.my husband told her mom that there is no need to cook twice daily but no use. i am not complaining about my motherinlaw just that i need time for my studies otherwise i will never mind cookin twice or doing laundry daily.
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hey cookie
can uderstand what u r saying ,but u see u haveeeee to do it . there is no one else who cares abt ur career so u have to be the one to choose ur priority.
u have wasted soo many doing medicine , and now u wanna waste it ,just cz u have to work all day for ur family . its good to take care of them but u have to see what ur goal is . u can explain it to ur mom in law , tell her all our lives will be bettr if i take this exam and convince her to help u. she would understand , i hope sooo.
u know u shd go and read the prep jounals on this forum ther r ppl who r sick ,prgnant , some even have 3 kids and they r still trying . u r soo much better than soo many of us ,atleast u did the 1st reading, now the hhard part is done ,only the brushing up is left . u do ur second reading quickly or ull 4 get whatever u did during ur 1st reading . ur husband is right u shd only cook once, or just do it on saturday and sunday . tell them this is temporary, or if they cant copup ,ask them to keep a maid ,or ur mom in law can help u ,i m sure she knows how to cook.
u can finish ur daily chores by 2 or 3.pm and after that u belong to none ,ur mom in llaw ,ask her to take care of ur son aftr 3 p.m.
thats the only way u cud do it .
this a battle we all have to fight and win .
and ONLYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY YOUUUU CAN do it , remebr noone else bother.
so go ahead ,take a new start ,dunt let these negative stuff come ur way , nothing can stop u , u have to do . oh one thing more ,u cud show some of the journals of dedicated ppl to ur husband and mom in law , and then wehn they see what everyone else is doing to pass this exam ,theyll understand u and will cooperate wz u .
ok
u take care
GOOD LUCK and happy studying.
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