"neevyg" wrote:
yes, i know i can give my hubby can apply 4 a greencard, but i hav family problems, hubby doesnt want my parents thinking he'z using me
What a tough spot to be put in, between families. I thought about this situation for a while, and it came to me while watching an episode of "Sex in the City" - what about a prenuptial type agreement. He writes a statement saying that he is applying for the greencard through you, and that he will give it back if something happens in your marriage. And then have it notarized and show that to your parents.
Now, while it's not legally binding, it might be enough for your parents to see that you are secure in your marriage and this was the adult decision that you decided on.
Good luck
p.s. How do you get a job in research after your internship? You start applying at institutions that have open positions.
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bbb - trying to combine common sense and humour into realistic answers, but not going to guess on anyone's chances of getting into a position....back on September 2
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